UNTRIGGER
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Ninety seconds between the feeling and the text you'd regret.

An emotion arrives hot, and about ninety seconds later the surge is gone — if you don't keep feeding it. Untrigger is one button you press instead of sending the text, making the call, or saying the thing you'd take back tomorrow.

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Free, forever. No account, no streaks, no guilt notifications.
Untrigger
Something just landed hot?
Start the reset 90 seconds. No setup.
You can name what it is later — or never.
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How the ninety seconds works

Three moments, and none of them ask you to be calm first.

You open it with your thumb, one-handed, while you're still shaking. Everything is reachable from there.

00:00 · one tap
Name it, or don't

Four plain words — anger, anxiety, panic, overwhelm. Pick one or skip straight past. Nothing is scored, nothing is diagnosed.

00:20 · the orb
Breathe with something that slows down too

In, hold, out — the orb breathes on a slow four-count for the full ninety seconds, so you follow it instead of counting. Leave the app and it keeps time right on your Lock Screen.

01:30 · if someone's waiting
Say the true thing, calmly

Send your partner — or your teenager, with consent on both phones — one honest sentence. They see that message and nothing else.

"It wasn't about you. Twenty minutes, then I'm back."
Apple Watch

The reset was always going to end up on your wrist.

The wrist is where a hard moment actually happens — already there before your phone is even out of your pocket. One tap starts the same ninety seconds. The ring cools from coral to teal as it runs, so you can read where you are without a number.

One tap, right there
A complication on your watch face or a Smart Stack card opens straight into the reset — no unlocking your phone first.
Send the signal from your wrist
Once it passes, one tap lets a partner know — the same calm line you'd send from your phone. Nothing else leaves your watch.
Still nothing kept
Same rule as the phone — no numbers, no streaks, no label. When it's done: "That passed." Write it down later, or never.
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Breathe out
Stop
Privacy

Nothing leaves your phone unless you send it.

Private by design — your data stays stored locally on your device. The hardest sentences you'll ever write are worth keeping that way.

Your journal stays on the device
Entries, emotion words and reset history are stored locally. No account or login, anywhere in the app — even Untrigger+ and pairing run on your existing Apple ID.
A connected person sees one message
Not your entries, not your timing, not how often. Just the sentence you chose to send, and only after both sides consent.
No ad tech, no data sale
We don't sell or share your information with advertisers. You can export or delete everything from Settings.
Your data
Export everything.txt
What we store, in plain words
Streak reminderswe don't send these
Delete my data and entries
Journal entries and resets stay on your device unless you turn on backup. Nothing is shared with anyone you've connected unless you tap send.
Journal +
I wanted to be right more than I wanted to be kind. It passed in about a minute.
Tuesday, 21:14 · anger · reset finished
Too many things at once. Sat down. Started with one.
Sunday, 08:02 · overwhelm
Too tired to name it. Just needed the ninety seconds.
Friday, 18:40 · not named
Journal & insights

Mostly, it writes itself.

Every reset leaves a quiet line in your Journal — when it happened, which word you picked, whether you finished. Write more if you want to; an empty entry still counts.

What Untrigger+ notices
Most of your hot moments land between nine and eleven at night. That's a tiredness pattern, not a character flaw.
No scores No streaks No missed-day language
iOS first · Android later

Questions people ask before they trust it.

Is this therapy?

No. Untrigger is a self-care and reflection tool — a fast first-aid layer for one hard moment. It doesn't diagnose anything and it isn't a substitute for professional care.

What does it cost?

The ninety-second reset is free, forever — no account needed. Untrigger+ unlocks written coaching after a hard moment, deeper pattern insights, and the relationship layer for partners or kids. One price, no countdown tricks.

Can my partner read my journal?

No. A connected person sees only a message you choose to send them. Not your entries, not your emotion words, not how often you open the app.

I'm not in a relationship. Is it still for me?

Yes. The reset is the product; the second person is optional. Plenty of hot moments have no one else in the room.

Can I use it with my teenager?

Yes, once both phones consent. Their version uses shorter words, says clearly that it isn't their fault, and never shows them anything about you beyond your message.

Does it work without signal?

The reset does — it runs on your device. Sending a message to a connected person needs a connection, like any message would.